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My first one was three years ago, my next a year later, one was just this February and I'm looking forward to one next weekend - what am I wittering on about? Hen parties. As a mid twenty something hen parties have become a regular in my Paperchase diary and I'm more than ok with that, any opportunity to celebrate my friends happiness with the addition of cocktails and cheer is alright with me. 44% of men even agree with me and say a hen party is a celebration of marriage*. Being a hen party attendee is one thing but organising one is an entirely different kettle of fish - after planning one from start to finish and helping out with another I thought it was high time I jotted down a few tips, just in case you might need them. As the girl guides say, be prepared.

 1. Decide on a location - it's easy to get carried away and pick somewhere you'd love to visit (hello New York) but remember who's party it is. Really think about what the bride to be enjoys doing, is she a party gal, a culture vulture or a little more reserved? What did she love about other hen parties she's been to? Take all this into consideration and take your time researching destinations but don't forget about budget. It may be yawn educing but if it's too pricey you'll have friends bailing before the fun begins, factor in everything from accommodation to travel and even eat and drink spends.

 2. Pick out a crash pad - when I planned my friend Laurens hen in Manchester I decided serviced apartments were the way forward  for our Saturday nights stay but for my future sister in laws we're staying in a Brighton townhouse that sleeps 28 with a three night commitment. If your planning a city break think more about location than how fancy the accommodation is, you'll barely be in the room, save that extra mula for activities. 

 3. Organised fun is your best friend - hen parties bring together a variety of friendship groups plus the odd mum and token auntie so planning activities and games that everyone can enjoy is the perfect way to break the ice and encourage conversation. I've enjoyed everything from afternoon tea to karaoke, Mr and Mrs and the design a wedding dress game, complete with toilet rolls!

 4. It's all about the bride - so make the day, weekend, gathering as special and memorable as possible. It's those little details, decorations and surprises that'll make it an event she never forgets. I love the idea of decorating your chosen living quarters with pretty bunting (Gifts & Pieces have an awesome selection) and why not ask friends to bring along something that reminds them of the bride and pop these goodies into a memory box? Personal touches are the way to go.

 Have you ever organised a hen party? What advise would you give?
*Survey carried out by Ladbrokes Bingo.